https://chloemars.com/pro-kink-bdsm-blog daily 0.75 2026-10-01 https://chloemars.com/pro-kink-bdsm-blog/accessible-kink-spaces-and-events monthly 0.5 2026-09-29 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/63477d7502b86c32fa959309/8cc302e5-0aab-4ddb-8bd8-ebaa3cdeae30/Kink+and+Disability BLOG - Accessible Kink Spaces and Events: A Practical Guide - Accessible kink isn’t about accommodating a few exceptions. It’s about designing for reality. This is the third and final post in my three-part miniseries on disability and kink. If you're just landing here, I recommend starting with part one (where we named the problem: ableism) and part two (where we got practical about individual scenes). Part three moves from the personal to the collective: how to create accessible kink events and spaces. Scenes happen between people, but they also happen somewhere: a dungeon, a play party, a workshop, a club, a room booked for a private event. And every one of those spaces is making decisions about who can participate, whether the organizers realize it or not. The more I write on this topic, the more I realize how vast it is. Instead of trying to cram everything into one post here, I’ve again decided to break things down even further. This post is specifically geared towards spaces and organizers who host kinky events and parties. In a future post I will break down how to create an accessible dungeon in a similar way, so stay tuned! https://chloemars.com/pro-kink-bdsm-blog/accessible-kink-scenes monthly 0.5 2026-09-29 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/63477d7502b86c32fa959309/8cc302e5-0aab-4ddb-8bd8-ebaa3cdeae30/Kink+and+Disability BLOG - Accessible Kink Scenes: A Disability-Informed Guide to Play - When we build scenes with access in mind, play gets more creative, consent gets clearer, and power exchange gets deeper. This is the second post in my three-part miniseries on disability and kink. If you haven’t read part one yet, I recommend starting there as it lays the foundation for what follows. In the first post, we named the problem. Ableism is woven into kink through assumptions, barriers, and language that work to decide who gets to play and how. Part two is all about practice. Accessibility isn’t a vibe or a checklist, it’s a skill set. It’s something we build intentionally. This post focuses on how we can actually do that: concrete practices, examples, and ideas that you can incorporate into your scenes. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/63477d7502b86c32fa959309/41df267e-16a7-4562-9e3e-fc72dd8fa151/13-Household-Items-That-Can-Double-as-Sex-Toys.webp BLOG - Accessible Kink Scenes: A Disability-Informed Guide to Play - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/63477d7502b86c32fa959309/a399c3d5-7bf1-4d70-a771-cf745a18b219/EbesHVvX0AEyKeH.jpeg BLOG - Accessible Kink Scenes: A Disability-Informed Guide to Play - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://chloemars.com/pro-kink-bdsm-blog/ableism-in-kink monthly 0.5 2026-09-29 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/63477d7502b86c32fa959309/8cc302e5-0aab-4ddb-8bd8-ebaa3cdeae30/Kink+and+Disability BLOG - Disability & Kink: How Ableism Decides Who Gets to Play - Ableism is one of those forces that often goes unnamed, especially in conversations about kink. 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