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      <image:title>BLOG - Disability &amp;amp; Kink (Part 2): A Practical Guide to Accessible Scenes - When we build scenes with access in mind, play gets more creative, consent gets clearer, and power exchange gets deeper.</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is the second post in my three-part miniseries on disability and kink. If you haven’t read part one yet, I recommend starting there as it lays the foundation for what follows. In the first post, we named the problem. Ableism is woven into kink through assumptions, barriers, and language that work to decide who gets to play and how. Part two is all about practice. Accessibility isn’t a vibe or a checklist, it’s a skill set. It’s something we build intentionally. This post focuses on how we can actually do that: concrete practices, examples, and ideas that you can incorporate into your scenes. Stay tuned for part three, where I’ll take the same practical approach but move on from accessible scenes to accessible spaces.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Disability &amp;amp; Kink (Part 2): A Practical Guide to Accessible Scenes - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Disability &amp;amp; Kink (Part 2): A Practical Guide to Accessible Scenes - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Disability &amp;amp; Kink (Part 1): How Ableism Decides Who Gets to Play - Ableism is one of those forces that often goes unnamed, especially in conversations about kink.</image:title>
      <image:caption>And still, it’s always at play, quietly influencing who feels welcome, who feels desirable, and whose needs are prioritized. But before we can talk about things like access, inclusion, or meaningful change, we need a shared language for what’s happening beneath the surface. So that’s where we’re starting. This is part-one of a three-part blog series on disability and kink, first taking an honest look at how ableism shows up in our assumptions, our spaces, and our kink cultures.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Disability &amp;amp; Kink (Part 1): How Ableism Decides Who Gets to Play - Twitter responses</image:title>
      <image:caption>A collage of 11 twitter responses from people that answered the question “what does accessible kink mean to you?”. Key parts are highlighted in yellow.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Impact Play Safety Zones: A Practical Guide (Free Download!) - Consent, communication, and care are your best tools—but not without a bit of anatomy savvy.</image:title>
      <image:caption>By respecting the body’s natural architecture and learning where it can (and cannot) safely take impact, you make space for more adventurous, enjoyable, and ethical play. Link to download PDF is at the bottom of this page.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-05-14</lastmod>
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      <image:title>BLOG - My Personal Interview with German Domina Lady Sas - Gain insight into my world through this thoughtful Q&amp;A.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Lady Sas is a German Domina and author who is dedicated to exploring and sharing insights into the world of BDSM. Since 2013, she has conducted in-depth interviews with leading industry professionals, providing a platform for Dominatrices worldwide to share their unique perspectives. It was an honour to receive an interview request from Lady Sas and to be the first Canadian Dominatrix featured on her site. I hope you enjoy our conversation and get to know me a little better by reading it.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-02-12</lastmod>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Cannabis and Kink: A Dominatrix’s Perspective - Please note:</image:title>
      <image:caption>The use of any substance during any BDSM/kink activity is inherently risky. As someone who has spent many years navigating this hazy space, I believe it’s important to approach this topic with both curiosity and care. Cannabis is not for everyone and it should be consumed responsibly. With that said, let’s get into one of my favourite ways to inspire connection, creativity, and brain-oozing submission: weed.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-02-12</lastmod>
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      <image:title>BLOG - First Session at the Dungeon? Here’s What To Expect - It’s probably not as scary as you think…</image:title>
      <image:caption>New clients often don’t know what to expect when they arrive at the dungeon for the very first time. Media portrayals of dungeons, Dominatrices and kink/BDSM sessions are often misleading. Many people assume that they will be ambushed as soon as they open the door, or that I’ll immediately throw a gag in their mouth and start whipping them the moment they arrive. In realty, this is never the case. Unless we have negotiated otherwise, here is a practical breakdown of how a session in the dungeon is actually structured.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Embodying the Mommy-Domme Archetype in D/s Dynamics - It’s Mommy, as in Daddy.</image:title>
      <image:caption>The world of BDSM is so diverse and rich with roles and dynamics, and for me, one of the most fulfilling is that of a Mommy-Domme. This archetype blends authority and care in a way that resonates deeply with who I am, so I am sharing what it means to embody this role and why it holds a special place in my heart.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-07-25</lastmod>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Understanding the Role of Aftercare in BDSM - What is aftercare, anyway?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Aftercare in BDSM refers to the emotional, mental, and physical care given to all participants following a BDSM scene or activity. It is a crucial part of the practice, ensuring the well-being of everyone involved. Aftercare is tailored to the needs of the individuals and can vary widely depending on the intensity of the scene, personal preferences, and emotional dynamics. It’s important to discuss aftercare prior to beginning any BDSM scene (and in my opinion, any vanilla scene too).</image:caption>
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